According
to Lola Omotayo, she has gotten so many DMs from people who ask her how she
handles negativity which is constantly thrown at her. Peter Okoye’s wife further
revealed that she ‘anger only hurts and what people think is none of your
business’.
She
wrote;
People
send me DM’s asking me how I remain sane and composed when so much negativity
is thrown my way and my answer to you is simple: Anger only hurts you! What
people think of you is none of your business, you just need to live your truth!
When your sense of satisfaction and self worth is derived from the opinions of
strangers then truly you are not in control of your happiness. This constant
need of validation from randoms is so unhealthy.
We
are always told to stay away from negative vibes or negative people but then
how will you grow your Love and Compassion if there is no one to upset you,
hate you, hurt you or rub you the wrong way? Only YOU are responsible for your
pyschic hygiene, only you can clear and fill your energy with love and goodness
everyday, no one can do it for you and you can only do so through life
experiences good and bad. Aim to be kind to your enemies and haters. Your acts
of kindness are never wasted because ultimately, God sees your heart and that
is really what matters at the end of the day. Wishing you a blessed week my
Insta-fam!
What do you think of her method of dealing
with the brothers? Please leave your comments below.
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