BBNaija star, Khafi, has come out to deny claims that she and her lover, Gedoni, are expecting their first child together.
Khafi and Gedoni met
during the BBNaija season 4 show. They developed an affair in the house that
blossomed outside the house.
Only recently, there
were rumors that she and Gedoni have secretly tied the knot as they now adorn
wedding bands.
Her fans have since
then been watching her womb with many congratulating her for "being
pregnant" with their first child.
In a lengthy post
shared on her Instagram page age, the reality TV star dismissed claims she is
pregnant and also asked people to stop putting such pressure on women. She said
whenever she gets pregnant she will share the news and until then, people
should stop with the pregnancy comments they leave on her page. Read her post
below
''The way I'm looking
at the next person who drops a pregnancy comment on my post. Continue reading
if you don't want to get BLOCKED. (I'm not joking).
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I've ignored them for
the longest now but according to the womb watchers on social media I have been
pregnant for over a YEAR. So let me get this off my heart. Some people have
flat stomachs naturally and some people have big stomachs naturally. The latter
is ME. And when I'm on my period it is even BIGGER. I don't owe anyone a flat
stomach but still I try to suck in my belly in every single picture and
sometimes I do it better than others. The worst is that even when I'm proud of
my 'sucking in skills' on a particular picture there is always SOMEONE who
still comments something about pregnancy. This is a habit that HAS TO STOP.
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First of all, women
are more than baby making machines. A woman's fertility or decision to start a
family is for her to decide, not for you to comment on in every single
picture... Must our stomachs always be the first thing you look at??
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Secondly, I'm not just
speaking up for myself but for women in general. You may mean well when making
pregnancy remarks but it is not always a compliment. For women who have had
miscarriages, have been trying unsuccessfully for a baby, or simply conscious
about their weight it can be very distressing, triggering and also puts a lot
of undue pressure on them. So unless someone has announced a pregnancy or told
you then please be nice and DONT COMMENT OR CONGRATULATE them on one.
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Trust me when the time
is right I welcome pregnancy (twins please Lord!) and starting a family at
God's time. But until I've said I'm expecting please stop with the pregnancy
comments. I'll have no patience for them anymore and any one who writes such
comments will get BLOCKED.
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To those who mean well, thank you so much, I do love you all But to the amebos please be amebos elsewhere . It's pressure enough being a woman, so let's not add to it.''
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